My First Love Broke Me

The first time I fell in love, I thought it would be forever. We had kids names planned and I had our futures mapped out in my mind. He was the first man to meet my parents – in all my twenties so far, I haven’t met another man worthy of the honour. But it became unhealthy – or maybe it always was, and I just never saw it – we loved each other obsessively, aggressively and more dangerously with every day that passed.

I met him over a decade ago, which is crazy to think now. He was abusive, physically and emotionally, but I healed and moved on from it – or so I thought. I think about incidents between us sometimes – how awful they were, how scared I was at that time, how sick he was to thrive off my fear.

Anyway, I wrote something about one of the many terrible nights I shared with him. I wrote about it for my own therapeutic reasons, but also because I know I’m not alone in what I experienced – far from it. And sometimes we might not want to talk about it, but reading that you’re not alone can be quite helpful, I think. So here it is:

http://www.gal-dem.com/domestic-abuse-young-relationships/

On a final note, shout out Jinan Younis for helping me get the article out, and Tishya Desai for the illustration she made for the piece. ↓↓↓

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Illustration by Tishya Desai

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